Create Tension To Get Her Chasing You

Its Morning here; great vid to start the day ⭐️💫💫

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Your videos are awesome as always. Really good stuff Erick , I have a question for you, my brother. If you can’t trust what a woman says only her actions. How can you trust her when there’s no way to verify her actions? Also, women are very manipulative and sneaky. I’m not saying this from anger but it got me thinking. When I get into an ltr it happens all the time. Sometimes I catch myself thinking, and I don't know if Is that I don't trust women or I don’t trust myself to see the red flags and the signs before they cheat? Thanks. for helping us, you're a great mentor

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You're my favorite coach, spot on 👌

I'm really Impressed with the frequency of videos you upload on the subject. You've helped me personally more than once before too in the comments. Just wanna say thanks

This would work for shallow women who are not looking for a stable, long term potential relationship. I would see this behavior as a no go. (From a woman)

Erick on your video ( Controlling behavior conveys insecurity ) there was something that called my attention . Although I agree with everything you said on that video , my question for you is . Why is she going to a girls night out ? To me is very clear that she’s going there for bad purposes . Get some flirt or even possibly to sleep around . I had seeing some women cheat on their men in girls night out and then they just go back to them like if nothing happens . Do you have any advice on how to know when a women is cheating or potentially about to cheat so I can avoid that pain on the future ??

That introduction music it's quite cool, been following your videos time ago, they helped me a lot, thank you so much for your advices.

Excelent video and completely spot on. At one point I noticed that I was a lot more successful with girls I wasn't really into, and it all came down to one thing: simply doing less. I wasn't so forthcoming with texting or with compliments, or with arranging dates. This (unbeknown to me) created tension and caused these girls to chase me. Of course if you take it too far they'll just give up and leave.

And yes, it's completely possible to "fake it 'till you make it" with a girl you're actually attracted to, even if you don't have that many options.

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Hey Erik!

You always say that we must do the man job by keeping the fun, setting up the dates and leading things to the bedroom.
But what if the woman puts in no effort? Like not initiating the contact? Is there any formula you suggest like going no-contact after the third date? And how would you deal with such situation when the girl is cold, you’re doing everything, she does nothing but goes out on dates with you?

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Coach Erick first thanks for helping us ❤

My question is there’s a chick that we work in the same company and when ever we come face to face she smile and laughed that’s what she does every time she saw me but today was different she just came to me in the cafeteria and I was in a line in front of her and she just told me let me go in front of u or I will slap you and some others jokes words seem like she was joking

So so should I start takin to her because I always ignore her

Coach love the videos as always! Question- we mutually decided to part ways last week and after 4 days she contacted me and said she wants to go on a date and try to make things right. I was hesitant but I said ‘’are you sure’’ and she said ‘’yes’’ then just went off topic about work and neither of us said anything else about it. That was 4 days ago and still haven’t heard from her. I guess I didn’t say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ because I was caught off guard. What do I do? Stay in no contact like before or reach out? Super thanks!

Hello coach I watched your videos and I really love them as they are very informative my problem with my ex is she work in another city away from her family for a month and I was in Russia studying (she is 18 / I'm 21) and we were. Planing on living together and studying . When she came back I didn't notice any changes on her but one day we got in an argument and she said she needed time alone at the beginning I tried to comfort her and know what's wrong but in the end I gave her the space and she broke up after 5 days saying the distance is far away for her and she saying I love you but not in a romantic way and she begged to be friends and u was like ok but I didn't contact her again until 2 weeks after the break up our friends tried to fix things and she agreed to talk to me and then I went to talk to her in private and she said she lost feelings and I was devastated we didn't block each other and we had a good relationship I didn't contact her after this and I apologized for this behavior she didn't ignore my messages at all and after 1 month of no contact she posted a picture of her with someone else on social media and she hid it from me . And 3 days later she went to check my whatsapp Messenger which she used exclusively for me and she didn't say anything and she likes posts about past relationships . Is she gone forever ????

Hey coach. The new thumbnails you have are a big improvement over the old ones keep up the great work! I have a question though. I’ve been flirting with a girl who works at a gym nearby. I asked her out and she agreed and gave me her number. After a few days passed I went to confirm where we are going and when but she said she’d let me know and she never did. Should I call her out on it? The next day I acted like everything was normal and we worked out a little bit and were flirting with each other. I’m not exactly sure what to do next? Should I try again or just let her come to me? Or should I act more cold towards her?

Dude you nail these tips

I love this. No BS. No woke agenda. Just pure guy to guy relationship advice that so many of us guys need. Thank you sir 👌🏻

Another great video.

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I suppose you might be negligent about mentioning country laws defending the rights of the ASEXUAL.

I can tell you a "deep soul?" That s*** is corny as old people stuff. stop it

In “Why men like bitches” she teaches us not to chase, and we don’t chase it’s humiliating. Neither me or my women friends chase men. Attention we can get anywhere, we get it from strangers on the street, from friends, men coworkers, men in gym, men are everywhere give us attention, even gas station, etc. If man acts like a prince he will get nothing. Women with healthy self -esteem who grew up with loving father, those women will never chase men. Only doormats chase men.

I am sorry, but this is something between bluepill and redpill. I am almost 54, and what I saw in my life is that women are as carnal as men are, if not more. If you are good looking, you passed, the rest is of much much minor importance. What you are talking about relates only to about 5% cases in the dating marketplace.

Today, my wife texted me this while I was at grocery store:

“If you’re willing to change my sheets and mattress pad again, it would help me. My arm has hurt all day. I keep sweating at night. “

We have been sleeping in separate rooms due to lots of marital tension.

I am practicing being more assertive and not just a nice guy so I said I was sorry she was hurting and was she asking me to change the sheets for her?

She responded back. “Yes, that’s what I asked you. “

I responded back, “no, you beat around the bush, maybe trying to guilt me into it? but didn’t directly ask me.” I can help you, sure.

She then got mad and blew up. Said this:

“I wasn’t trying to guilt you into anything.
I told you that it would help me if you changed my sheets. The choice is then yours. Without pressure. “

But that sounds like psychological pressure to me. We have been having a lot of tension in recent months because we’re at a counselor and I have tried to ask for her to just look nice for me as a woman each day instead of dressing like a bum all the time and not caring even when I ask, of course sex and physical intimacy has tanked, because frankly physical appearance starts that it is essential.

If I take a step back, I’m thinking I’ve seen this happen more times, and that she will never apologize or admit any wrongdoing and seems to always want to win any disagreement. Or pin it on me that I am being mean and insensitive, etc.

In the past I have been too agreeable and nice . Was there a better response I could have made to her first request or was it right for me to stand up like that?

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I’m sorry guys, but this advice only works with weak minded women. A truly beautiful woman with tons of options will “peep game“ and just move on when she realizes what you’re doing.

Excellent, thx.

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"Women want your attention". Spoken like a man who's living life on "Easy" mode. For those of us living life on "Hard" or "Nightmare" mode, we know that no matter how good of shape you get into, how attractive you get, or how confident, charismatic or aloof you become, women will STILL want nothing to do with you.

It's a rare reality that affects only the small subset of men cursed to live life on difficulty modes above "Hard".

I disagree. Women don’t screen 100s of men and they don’t consider 99% of the men that approach them ‘options’ more so ‘nuisances’. Attraction is a biological state which either exists or doesn’t when she encounters someone. If she is in a state of attraction, it’s a rare emotion and occurs within seconds of meeting a man. She then seeks rapport with this man and seeks to put him at comfort around her. There will be short tests from her during the courtship but her behaviour will largely be emotionally pleasant as a woman will trust that feeling more than any ‘red flag’ or ‘mistake’ the man does. When you have dated lots of beautiful like myself and even managed to sleep with some women within 15-30minutes of meeting them, you notice patterns, and the pattern I’ve noticed is that attraction is an emotional STATE a woman is either in or isn’t when you’re around her, there’s no thought processing behind it. Attraction is mainly based on the man’s looks and perceived social status. Anything else which isn’t genuine attraction, is just her manipulating a situation for attention or free dates.

Hey, great job this sounds like it’s all based on Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire. And yes, that’s the material you need to have him resonating with erotic electricity at your will. Sounds like too much IK, but just for the basics it's worth go'ogling her ;)

Very nice!

basically, more or less, make her simp for you eh? in that sense. I have been on dates lately and honestly, i've failed in procuring another date. I also had like those toxic narcissistic women that i went for without realizing it until it became apparent after some form of investment and I had to leave before it became worse. No point to be in a relationship just for the sake of it. the one that i wanted, didn't go further than 1 date and i guess that's fine but i think i was too obvious that i like her..i assume..i'm not sure but i use to be quite open with it but i think patience wasn't one of them as i'm the type of person that needs to get things fixed quickly. Only learning for maybe the past 1-2 years to slow shit down.

some women want you to be direct but not too direct i realize. as long as you know what you want, they seem to like it. take initiative, take authority not dominate. Be upfront if you're looking for a serious relationship but like her, you don't open your "legs" just for anyone. i learn this throughout this year a lot more. many failed dates but i guess, better than zero dates, which is my current mode after 2 weeks ago which is fine. I don't need a "woman meat", i need a partner and that takes time.

This video isn't some andrew tate bs, which to me, is good because fk that noise as it's a waste of time and you're just manipulating. young girls, maybe that's how you get them but man, idk , i won't put down my own principles for a little punani. I learn that when i do, i feel like trash at the end. there's almost a constant reminder for me, not to be that ever again. reciprocate when they reciprocate. the pull /push thing is real though, you give a little, she gives a little. it's a dance. if she gives a lot, great. but that could be a red flag too if it's too bloody fast.

Never rush for something worthwhile. that's it.

Sounds like bs. Creating tension is her job. She will always find the right buttons to push.

Yea they be testing that worthiness into loneliness 😂😂😂 🐈

I’m starting to get on her nerves, she is starting to have a short fuse with me, but I always just smile and she tells me with a smile also “you piss me off and just smile about it “ I hope this is the tension in my favor in the future, we do have sex but refuse to go on a date with me

She is telling me or giving me hints of rejection, but I’m not falling for it, her smile, her silence, her eyes looking at me, tell me otherwise oh and the tension is undeniable

Good video

She has so many options that if i make her chase she will call the next guy and i will be single forever