How 'Dating Games' Create Obsession and Attachment @SusanWinter

please susan ❤enable translation and subtitles! I love your content and thank you for this gift❤🙏 i speak french 🙄

Wow 🔥🔥🔥

Very true that online dating has brought out the players and scammers, who initially have a sincere sounding line to hook you in. There are websites that coach Players on what to do and say.

Your makeup looks extra lovely today

If ur confused 🚩🚩🚩

I keep making the same mistake of attaching too quickly over and over. I’m taking a break but damn I’m 62! Not much time left. 😢

This was great Susan 😊 spot on

Susan My God your just a power house today. Love it... Looking right in the camera and saying "wake up people... Don't be taken for a free ride"
. I know myself I am Single, quiet and struggling at times.
Simply 'Thankyou' ⚡

NO. That's boring, Not exciting. Romance is spontaneous

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Thank you for explaining the craziness of human nature.

I was with a guy that would pick a fight with me so I wouldn't go with him somewhere and he was going to see another woman. It is true if they pick a fight with you out of nowhere be wary. Its also true that if they keep stringing you along with no commitment they aren't in love with you. They are keeping themselves open for a reason. When someone is truly in love with you you will know. There will be no doubt & no games.

Wow been here a few times soooo confusing 😕

Micah is a lucky little dog to have you as her mom. Thank you for another great episode, Susan!

Thanks Susan I am a fan of yours. You are brilliant

Love you Susan and this show yesterday!, maybe you have some advice for me..., like If you are in back and forth relationship (mostly because they leave unexpectably - probably player with few other women dating), does it mean they always come back, because they miss you and you are unforgettable and/or different than others, or does it mean they only boost they ego? Is there a chance it will ultimately change into a real relationship given some patience or some circumstances? If it matters, we are both 30 years old. Like, I don`t dream of marriage or kids, but just stable relationship without on and off.
Or maybe is it possible to find out his intentions somehow? Some conversation/ultimatum? Of course, I am scared of conversation to go badly and loose him for good, but for the first time, I am really getting tired of this "disappear of him" game.

This is a refreshing video!

To the woman who said a man warned her that she shouldn't date him: So often men warn us, and all that does is endear us to them. But I feel like you should take him at his word! I believe that he is being honest, and down the line, he will say that he warned you.

Thank you so much Susan for very clearly explaining this confusing, hot and cold behaviour. It's so very helpful to myself and many other people who have experienced this terrible behaviour. You are fantastic!! ❤️❤️

Great video!!! My problem now, when breakups with women I'm dating, then they start playing these games your talking about, I'll go no contact and then I meet a new woman and get attached, then those previous exes will at same time start contacting me. Then I have to choose one and now I'm caught in this cycle.

Omg, that's why I quite dating. Going trough again and again, I don't have courage.

Susan this was perfect timing. I finally walked away and have tried to make sense of talking to so many women and I can't. Your insight and wisdom is comforting. Are these people ever capable of marriage?

Saying we always have to distance.. other coaches must think we're only dealing with players because that's what they tell us to do. Agree, it's exhausting and shouldn't have to be that way if mutual interest.

So true that nice men don't approach anymore let alone even make eye contact they are frozen in fear rather than channel their natural masculine inclination to pursue . Only players and himbos have any game.

I love this content. Late to watch but wow, this has been so helpful! Heartbreak is hard, it leads to depression so hard to get out of. I have always put my heart into everything and that includes people. I get codependant and make them my whole world. It is a loop and so unhealthy, but being aware of it and videos like this are life changing to so many people's mental health. Thank you Susan for yet again an amazing video.

This is one of your best videos Susan.. thankyou for giving us clarity in these crazy modern dating times

I’m very worried about becoming the ‘vanilla’ guy! 😩 I have plenty going on in my life - but have a partner who is busy too .. if one doesn’t make time for the other - we’d never see each other .!

I’m a Twin Flame too, Susan. My Twin is a high profile public figure from NYC. I understand that some of your clients are celebrities and other high profile people. Are any of them Twin Flames themselves? I haven’t seven much literature about Twin Flame connections where one is an ordinary Twin and the other is of celebrity status.

Players only love you when they're playing...

Thanks!

Suzan you are the best! Thank you for your insights to showing me my weakness that I will work on!

@Susanwinter
My God Susan, everything you say in this live is pure gold! Lately, I’ve been digging into attachment styles theory (hello PDS! 😅) and « diagnosed » myself with fearful avoidant attachment. Your wisdom and kindness are helping me to stay positive after 4 years being single and searching for love.
I will listen again for sure. To me, you are better than therapy!
Many thanks! ❤

thank you, exactly what I need to hear while I am right in it... and the attachment goes so fast, the getting out of the circle and the loop takes so much longer. But I wouldn't know how to handle it without all this advice!!! So thank you for your loving work!

I typically have no issue smelling the bs from guys and I also don't fall easily. The flipside to that is that it just takes that one to crush you. All dating advice seems to go out the door. I wish that I was the type who can easily be attracted to others because I believe it's easier to move on and not really care.

My god you deliver nothing but truth & you don't let up for even a second, I'm at like the 30-minute mark and you haven't stopped yet.