How to Drive a Narcissist Crazy

This people are delusional

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Thank you

Having friends is my main issue, I've always had issues socializing with others to where I had to have very special treatment in HS, I had to be away from students and teachers in a separate room to work usually, it was rare when people made me feel comfortable.

Everyone has always felt mean, apathetic, or just focused so much on their own lives, also perhaps not practicing actual empathy. It puts me off, I just didn't wanna waste my energy.

Public school administrators do this all the time.

Great advice

Psalm 37

THANK YOU DOCTOR!! TRUE DAT!!

Thanks you that makes so much sense… I will have my own life even if they decide to go on with out me I’m still be taken care of cause I am my own destiny and I’ll fill that life with love

Happy Thanksgiving!

So Very True, Your A Good Man helping others To See The Brick Wall Right in Front of them.
Each Person Simply ignore it Where Possible & Stay Happily Focused on Your Own Goals as we Simply Just Walk Around That Brick Wall Yet Again, To Continue Your own life without letting their or any Negatives affect Your Character people, if You Allow it to, it Will Affect You. (i know its easier said then done, so start now)
Just look as Someones History & Prepare Yourselves for What You Know is Most likely about to happen by past events & that is not Judging Someone, it is Simply just Preparing Yourself for the most likely things by past events. That's What Wisdom is & Knowing when & how to apply it to Yourself, Without Hurting Others, in order to build up those around you via your Good Character.
God Bless Everyone.

There will be no accountability or responsibility for anything. Don't ever expect an apology..ever

Amen

Ignore them!!!

They DO listen. Listening is a peak character trait; what they know about you, is what they use to control you and glorify themselves. Listening does not imply CARING, but you already know that

They're not listening anyway. Yeah, noted.

I went no contact early on. My mental health would have been much worse if I hadn't; it has been catastrophic regardless although now I'm starting to break through; though I accept there is permanent injury so I balance keeping my life expectations balanced with my drive to thrive and live a fulfilling free life. Eg. of the delusions: my sister yells at me that I haven't got her "go ahead" prior approval to visit my family ( I attempted reconnection > it didn't work...) = I'm assuming my sister thinks I have a toxic affect on my elderly parents because they see my mental health challenges as toxic to them challenges their denial, so can't acknowledge their responsibility part and intergenerational causal factors plus my sister is ultra entitled OMG. She's now stopped talking to me over an inheritance matter > I quite like the holiday = doing things I love like swimming in fast flowing rivers and having hot tubs next to rivers; laughing with friends who are not in denial and love me as I am = Pure Bliss :) I love my sister and I care about her and do not wish any more harm than she already has from growing up the way she has from our toxic & abusive family (pretends to be loving!) I really do and I'm not serving myself or my sister to allow the intimidation and delusions to ruin my life > they already have stopped me from my education; career, having partners and family of my own and financial hardships, not to forget the mental HELL > I can never forget and there are many days I feel like I'm in a meat grinder in agony to this day but now while it's bl^(%*^dy awful I have more and more days of enjoying my life and one day I hope to be financially independent and vibrant contributing to and being of service with joy and meaning overflowing my heart... I'm very slowly on track and loving myself more mixed with the ol self hate = it's part of the texture of who I am

The best thing I did was leave them tf alone altogether,

Wondering about whether there is any practical difference between a friend who works in sales and makes every conversation an attempt to dominate, and a narcissist? They have never simply respected what they hear.

“There’s no need for you to justify who you are, they aren’t listening anyway.” 👏👏👏
I spent way too long trying to tell him that all the things he made up about me weren’t me and it just got him more angry and explosive as he doubled down. They aren’t listening. They are living something out in their head and they assigned a character to you, but you will never be able to wield that character or make any conscious choices with it- it will be whatever they say it will be. None of this ever has anything to do with you or who you actually are

TRUTH. VERY TRUE 😅😅😅😅😅 NARCS ARE NUTS 🤪

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I love you! 💕

I am an empath - surrounded by narcissists in my life - one of the really sad things is this - knowingly or unknowingly, I eventually chose the TV for my social interaction - which, of course, is ridiculous - for obvious reasons - which, actually aren't so obvious in childhood - as the real & unreal are quite murky in the earlier years of life - until, one starts to realize that the people on TV - aren't really your friends because they're located in an electric box & they can't help you if you need them ...
anyway, the point is, the really sad part is, that this self inflicted isolation - well, actually inflicted by the narcissistic monsters - but, chosen to protect oneself from further harm - ends up wasting a lifetime of emotions - I'm a real person with real thoughts, feelings & emotions that no one in my life was interested in except to manipulate & exploit & sabotage me - so, I've wasted a lifetime of emotions on the characters that I've seen in TV & movies - I'm sitting here right now - watching Yellowstone - all into the story etc - and before you tell me to go to ' church ' - well, tried that for 30+ years - those supposed christians are just as bad - even worse, because they've got the nerve to call themselves Christians 😎

What is the best way to deal with them if you have to live with them or work with them?

Thank you sir for all these videos🙏🏽

Good advice

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32 years old male. My mother is so subtle in talking to me. Its always an agenda. She makes me feel crazy. I have a solid career. Yet she wants control in the smallest things in my life. She is losing control of me and i think it scares her. My brother has stopped talking to her on a daily basis and it drives her crazy. Yet my brother recognizes that and he can breathe. Yet she complains to me about my brother…..it sucks to be havimg a good time doing what i want and get a text from my mother that ruins the whole night with someone that I love.

Amen 🙌🏻

😂🥰I love it. I was so used to it as I was growing up I befriended someone where I live now. OMG! It’s so true it’s funny. I was polite and listened as they accused me of who the tried to tell me who I was. In the end, instead of being polite I permanently ended it.They put their shadows on you!

Narcissist sees people as Tool not as partners

Great advice I am following it!

Don’t give in to them.

Not intimidated at all
I was very nice and kind for many years
If someone would put me down I wouldn’t fight back
I would humble myself and let them think they won
I am a peacemaker
UNTIL, I had had enough
Now I understand things better
I wish what I knew now I knew then…things would have been different

I like who GOD made me😊

Jesus is truth

Narcs never like to write things down, so let them send letters, emails and keep them encountable this way.

Amen well said I'm on my healing journey

When it's a parent, we put trust and value into that narcissist, unfortunately. It's a difficult to break habit, since childhood.

15 + years ago I thought I made some new friends, when they showed me who they were I had to drop them. Real friends will have your back, dont worry if you haven't heard from them in a while because when you do it will be a most meaningful engagement. The narc who thinks he's your friend will bother you shitless because he's actually a weak sap and individual. Get rid of the saps who drain your awesomeness. Be forward and tell them they are WAY OFF the right path. Just do it, cause that sap needs to learn they are NOT part of your excellent destiny! If you find a new friend, filter them through, before accepting them. Remember that pobody is nerfect and you are in the drivers seat when it comes down to your well being.

Very true

I told my brother in law that I wasn’t going to get into an argument with him over a very serious matter. I literally seen the life leave his face. It was so weird.

Amen. I needed this today.

My mom will gas light me and try to act like she aint did nothing wrong when the whole world can see that she is out of line with all that nonsense and fighting over stuff that is not for ha. Embarrasses me to the core that I can never invite my mom to an event if I want to keep my dignity and sanity. She will find a way to destroy the event just to piss me off. Ha main thing is odors and sickness. Like making people feel bad or destroying the food or drinks. Just all kind of nonesense. My brother acts like I'm suppose to put up with the mess. NOT!

❤❤❤ used to listen to you a while back and I forgot how much it's helpful the daily life of this you kind of can get lost in and then when you hear these things you realize that it's an actual thing it's not you going crazy thanks so much

They're not listening anyhow!

THANK YOU, LOVE 🙏 🙏 🙏

they pathologically LIE!