Dr Gabor Maté | The Power Of Saying NO (Part 4)

Curious about this man's opinion of another Canadian _ Jordan B. Peterson.

Your message for us is so so so amazing, thank you!!!!

He is amazing and so awakening!👏

As a counselor, Mate’s work has expanded my ability to understand that a “diagnosis” is often incorrect; it’s a label of illness that crowds out the ability to move toward wellness—especially in children’s lives.
Hearing children say, “I have ADHD” or whatever, is one of the saddest things I have heard.
It’s not that there isn’t behaviors that are unproductive, but the model of illness seems often incorrect and out of sync with moving toward health.

I do say no but these heathens still keep coming so know my job begins

The 'scientist' who claim humans created climate change also have a certain agenda. They are payed to promote the United nations SDG's.

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Yes it's a process of finding meaning and purpose.l have also realised with time that if you live long enough you may have to go through the process often , it's not a linear path but the trick is to keep on the path, even if you are not moving forward, even if you fall back a few steps which you definitely would because of life's curved balls will not stop until you die. You accept that and it's easier to heal in subsequent attempts.Thankyou for the revision course Dr Matte.

Love it. About the politicians today; they are pretending to care for the environment, but if you look further; you will quickly find out that this is not true. We're actually in deep deep trouble, and global warming (with all its magnitude) is about 10% of our problems (sorry; I have done a lot of research).
We need to heal NOW. People that are full of their personal troubles will not be able to observe properly and not be able to take the right actions towards creating a better, more wholesome world.
Give yourself the gift if healing!💛💪
I did a lot of work and it's amazing how different you can feel! (It took me years though, but so worth it!)

I Thank you Dr. your a Gift to all of us!

Dr. Mate really look into deep layer of every Dis-easy. Every dis-ease is a journey to look deep into self. My life was great until I turned mid 40. I started to develop symptoms to the point that I could not drive. I saw all possible medical specialists. No medical specialists understand what happened to me. All their tests are normal. They scratched head and prescribed SSRI pills and told me that is the first choice of treatment. I challenged all of them what they try to treat! I walked away and started my healing journey to understand why. As a behavioral optometrist, I understand that my disoriented symptoms during panic attack on highway is vision process related. After I ruled out pathology by those medical specialists, I turned to my colleague and mentor who practices neuro optometric rehabilitation, a pair special glasses is life saver. As I start healing, I learned so much from my experience to look myself as a whole. Dr. Mate’s book helps me understand what small T trauma looks like. Thank you. As an optometrist, I can related his work to the fact all vision problems and eye diseases reflect a traumatic experience in life.

The original G . Thank you for being so true . Reading one of your books was the gateway drug into my life changing transformative healing journey and I'm happy to say I'm glad to be alive ✨️

I had To say No to this person who originally shared this video with me… strange feelings but heads up and stay ahead…. Intentions pure and genuine! Thanks for your time and wish you happy healthy long life ahead!

Well in our dysfunctional society saying no and setting boundaries is one thing having those boundaries respected is another. It's like a restraining order abusers will just ignore them.

He means in Hungarian health is "egészség", literally "wholeness".

How do I find different parts of these videos? I found part 4 but can't seem to search for the other parts.

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Doctor gabor just speaks such sense!

How can someone accurately voice the vast majority of major existential concerns in such a short video 🤯🤯🤯

Sad that this man so brilliant in human cognition and mental health is oblivious to the very nature of political entities that have leverage climate change fear mongering to advance their personal political goals.

👍 Gabor

Thank you. Never stop helping us. We need you to keep talking to us and showing us how to heal.

Recovering and healing from a childhood filled with trauma…lived with a narcissist mother and father who wasn’t plugged in. I’m finding myself and becoming whole. Thank you for your work.

Gebor Mate is my geri... He is a life changer and I love the quote he stated in Whne the Body says no - “If you face the choice between feeling guilt and resentment, choose the guilt every time.” I was someone who kept her mouth shut to avoid fights, starting from a young age, which turned in resentment over the years. I hurt myself so much by doing that. A very painful coping mechanism.

❤👌💯 thank you😊🙏😚

I have lost all respect for this Dr.after the Harry interview .Imagine he agreed to do this and diagnose with out any scientific analysis .He has become a showmen .Yes he has expereince trauma and seeing many but really charging for the spectacle with the Prince for amusement degrades him and other social scientists ..Very disappointing .he has become a showman and BTW he is neither a psychologist nor a Psychistrist he is an MD and thats not enough to treat vulnerable people .He IS WEIRD !!! stop charlatans !!

He’s not completely right about the climate change thing, that subject is being used to bring in social credit score neofeudalism system by the WEF etc. ( corporations should be reducing their pollution and emissions, and often aren’t forced to that’s a slightly different thing.. the WEF want to blame climate change on the people and gain benefit so it’s very important to know about that)

He's brilliant.

Nice hearing everyone give each other Covid in the audience during a talk about health and longevity.

“Politicians are notoriously lacking in self reflection”
How sad that the people who run the world are the least likely to do the inner work to make the world 🌎 a better place

❤First first first of all I want to say that you are an artist you are a "life artist". Secondly, I want to say that sometimes we have to say NO to ourselves because we want to ask our bodies for un strenth that is not there at some point, and we want to do things so badly, but we have to realize that we can't and say NO. Then that relief comes, and we feel like a balm on top of us, like a rain of peace and Tranquility. Thank you for all your love, thank you for all your work, thank you for all your knowledge, and thank you for all your help. ❤ I love you❤

No, no, no, no, noooo, noo, no, no, no! Love you Gabor! 🙂😘

The information he is giving is truly the medicine the world needs, especially the political leaders.

Real let down towards the end about politics. Climate change is real, the problem is there are many grifters and evil politicians using it to gain power and control.

There are climate change deniers the extreme right wing, that is insane to me

He has very dry humour 😋 love it

Saying no ?? I go out if my way to help even when I am not asked 😩 I am tired and already sick .. my entire life I have had anxiety and stressed. This makes so much sense after listening to this Dr

Is there a full lecture of this??

YES.....Gabor refers to "the presence of that something else" which inspires and heals us. And how powerful saying "no' is to being authentic. I use my gut feelings and often ask myself "is this a yes or a no?". Over time my inner knowing has become loud and clear.

OUTCOME DOOM ANDGLOOM!!!! PERIOD!!!! NICE ONE 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😡😡😡😡😡😡

Isn’t there a similar issue of not saying yes?

Which book he talked about , please someone give me the title

Brilliant as usual. Thank you.

God is that something else flowing through us. He is the Creator of all that is Good. In Him is Light, and no darkness at all.

Women can say no and everything in between. It is about patriarchy.. in society where man had power over land and money and decisions if she said no she would be in trouble. Women were slaves. And society is still mysagonistic. Women and men both are mysagonistic!

Say No to AUKUS wars.
Nu lyrics.

Would there be wars if we had remained naked?
No
Where to hide a revolver when you are naked?
Where?
I know where you're thinking
But
It's not a good idea
Yes...
No more rich people, no more poor people when you become naked again
Yes
Whether you're skinny, whether you're fat, you're simply naked
Yes?
Let's live as we were born
Naked
Let's live as we were born
Nuuuuu, just naked
Nuuuuu, just naked
As are animals, which never over do it,
They see that we look too much like
Monkeys under coats
Pelicans with hats
Nobody!
Simply sucks
Let's stay naked
Simply naked
There wouldn't have been wars if we had remained naked
No
Are we all sisters and brothers when we are naked?
Mmmmh...
Let's live as we were born
Naked
Let's live as we were born
Nuuuuu, just naked
Nuuuuu, just naked
Simply naked
Simply naked
Simply naked
Simply naked.

This tension that comes up about disappointing others has accompanied me throughout my life! At nearly 50 this is an experience that feels so disabling!