Signs of Unhealthy Relationship | Destructive Relationships

Each point most have experiencedin some form or fashion. I loved this part "Their potential may be different from your potential " yes!!

It makes me sad that men go through this too

I really needed this video. Thank you for what you are doing. I just got out of a toxic relationship. I kept holding on due to my codependency issues. I started to mirror her behaviors. I lost myself in the relationship. I thought in time she would change or I could help change her behaviors. Also, I had issues with the negative friends she had in her life. I end up pushing her way trying to change her because she wasn’t ready. I learned I need to just focus on my issues and growth so in the future I can choose healthy and mature partners.

Yes, yes and yes. Being manipulated.

I have always dated potential... just had a break up this weekend with a man I thought if I just supported thru his immaturity... that we would be happy in the end... that didn’t work... I see it’s time for me to seek some help and I let it go so he could do whatever he chooses.. in the end it was extremely disfunctional in ways I didn’t see until now. Really all I want is peace and a truest healthy relationship I pray I’ll get there

I’m guilty of #1 #3 the potential part got me bcuz I see my spouse more mentally structured

He literally told me that the friend I was going to visit was ugly and not someone I should be hanging out with...so toxic.

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HOW do you have ONLY 11k subs?? Your videos are life changing! So much knowledge and so much research!

WOW🤯💯

I am incredibly happy to have stumbled onto your channel. I identify with a few of these, such as number three and codependency. I have been in therapy and now in search of a different therapist to address my own trauma and issues. Thank you for providing such a positive and life changing platform for everyone to grow. I am a nurse who is passionate about improving the quality of life for all. I appreciate what you do. Big fan!

Codependency for sure. Does not feel good.

So on point

Okay I have a question cause I have this amazing friend but their love person is very possessive over my friend and the significant other is making rumours about me and the other people that the amazing friend is close to is this unhealthy and if so any tips on how to help them

Why is there never hotlines for victims of emotional abuse?

I am in a relationship with emotionally immature person which led us to an unhealthy relationship. And I am waiting for him to change,I just can't let him go. So guilty of #3
What do I do? Do I keep on waiting or do I give up??

Hellou, I don't know if anyone will read this, but I feel the need to coment
.... I'am a 24 years old lady and
recently my boyfriend left me after 2 and a half years of all the challenges we had. I can say that I think it was the best decision he could have made because I was not brave enough to make it myself. I wanted to save our relationship at all costs because I watched at home how my mother and father had all sorts of crises and grow even stronger, got better over time and that is something I carry within me, the belief that it must be so, that it must be something it will be chaotic and then the relationship will become even stronger over time if you persevere and fight ... However, he and I realized that we could not grow together anymore, I didnt sad that but I know it in my heart and he was lovning and sad that he hopes that we will be together when he will be ready and more mature for me but I know that it was pain of breaking speaking, love is freedom and letting go sometimes is more loving than to stay. So he had his emotional instabilities and is not ready to build something with someone, he really wants to be alone and I became aware thanks to that relationship most of my trauma and insecurities that I have to solve ... I would write a lot about my experiences but I can only say one thing .. Thank God for all the experiences that have led you to this today, we are here to learn about ourselves and others and to get closer to our potential and quality of life, let's not judge each other by our mistakes and let's do our best to be the best we can be .. I had almost all 10 in my relationship with him, some are his some are mine.. And I know for sure that love is not enough .. Work on yourself, ask for help, read a lot about it, pray and believe in a better future, try to have gratitude in the process and start your spiritual healing, I believe that we will all then witness healthy relationships with ourselves and others, because everything starts from us, and we are all beautiful in the depths of our spirit

Brilliantly explained. I’ve learned a lot.

It’s time for me to get a life ☺️

All of these are my relationship except 8, 10. Thank you very good understanding!

I was adopted and never felt “love”, like I was a child of my adoptive parents. I can see how I have insecure attachment issues in my relationship. If my boyfriend is moody or not acting himself, I think it’s my fault and I’ll hound him all day about it. I just hate myself like why am I like this. Me being more aware now tho is helpful. I hate that I’ve been like This and never knew but not I can see.! Working on me now!!!

most of them im guilty of doing. i cant member the number but i like and connect with this video souly on the ground of that your a male. and give me hope that with help i can fix these thing about me. i will be watch it a second time. thank you for this video

Hi, Romany. I love your content of your videos. They’re so on point but I have a hard time listening to them because you talk so fast! It’s like being bombarded with a machine gun! You barely take a breath before the next ratta-tat-tat! Are you limited to a short time? You put out a lot of great information but the pace is manic. I can’t even take notes! It’s not calming or reassuring. Maybe you could make the videos longer so you can talk slower and more calmly. I feel like I should be checking myself for bullet holes!😅

I'm guilty of codependency.

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This is very insightful. Thank you for this. I am guilty of so many of these issues. I obviously need to get some help!

Very good way that you broke this down thanks so much GOD BLESS YOU

I've seen all the signs of what you are talking about

So needed to see this. Really liked the other one on " emotionally unstable men". My current situation which is annoying and stressful
**btw...you r a handsome blackman**

You are amazing❤️

Great video. Thank you.

Guilty of all of them

I'm subscribed. Let's learn💯💯💯

Thank you Romany!

I attract unhealthy and insecure guys. I know it stems the lack of a father …but how do i know if I’m changing from the mistreatment from my family. I don’t believe i have the same problems, nor do i talk about them…

Hi, I like your video very much but the noise of the paper folding number that's a bit annoying. Anyways Thanks for sharing :)

Loveeeee your videos. Super helpful and easy to relate to. Keeping making more Romany.

I had met the love of my life at 20 years old. Unfortunately both of us had issues however, I was guilty of 1, 2, 3, 4, 5(broke us), 6(moved in after 3 months of dating and spent 24/7 together), 7(was neglectful of the good things she put into the relationship that I only saw the bad and had an eye for an eye mentality but made it worst when we went long distance), 8 she did things that always made me feel like i was just another guy which caused me to overreact, 9(we were both very codependent on each other). Broke up in September. Started talking again in November, after 4 months of trying to get her back. The relationship has finally been healthy but because I had overstepped the boundary of lying hiding a female friend. She's gone again and I don't think she's coming back as she also found out i slept with somebody on our time apart.

I’ve definitely been guilty of #2 in my last relationship. I even broke up with him an went back a second time after the “apology” still hoping that he would change but unfortunately he never did. There were several issues but the deal breaker for me was #2. He wasn’t willing to try new things with me, and would never support anything that I did. Even my mom noticed this. I love singing and taking pictures. He would never go an support me when I was invited to go out an sing. And he hates taking pics so if I were try an take a pic of him or a selfie 🤳🏾 of us together he would immediately get an attitude with me. So finally I just stopped asking him to take pics. 🤷🏽‍♀️ He hates social media so that was always an issue as well. He’s not on Facebook or Instagram so he was always accusing me of cheating which became emotionally draining as well. I finally just had to throw in the towel and end the relationship. He drank 🍷 too which is another issue but too much to type. I truly believe he has issues from his childhood and past relationships that he had never really dealt with. He just jumps from relationship to relationship without taking the time to heal. I truly pray 🙏🏾 that he’ll get the help he needs sooner than later. ❤️‍🩹

Best video i found

I am guilty of #1, I do not trust anyone not even my wife of 13 years to be completely open with. #3 I have been waiting for my wife to make the decision to do what is necessary for our marriage to improve. #4 I recently had a psychotic break, she didn't even react or demonstrate that she cared at all. #6 was true at the start of our marriage. She was too clingy and it caused me to push her away. #7 I love in the completely opposite way from my wife. She requires words of affirmation, something that I hold no value for since I value actions over words. #8 I want no parts of being single in 2022 and beyond. Nothing makes sense now. #9 not all aspects but enough that I can identify. #10 wife shows no respect for me as a man.

I myself wonder why a person would stick in a toxic relationship. That could never be me. I have great self awareness. 😂I thought all of those things until I was that person. Sometimes people stay because they are co dependent but not everyone. My younger brother & best friend suddenly died in front of my mom & I in 2019. No answers as to why he died or what happened. He told me a week before that he felt his body was slipping away from him and he told me that he didn't want to die. I cried with him and assured him that he had to be around & for him to just pray because I thought he would be ok. A week later he died. Travis was my mom's favorite and I was totally ok with that because he was my best friend. My mom at 58 yrs old was diagnosis with dementia a week after his passing. She was functioning and there were no obvious signs at the time but 2 weeks after his funeral mom asked me why Travis hasn't called her as usual. Mom's dementia got so bad that it was also Alzheimers and depression. I had quit my job totally financially dependent on my spouse whom I was planning on leaving. I have absolutely no help. Her 11 siblings and my only sibling refuse to help. I've not had a day without mom in 3 years. Mom's insurance doesn't cover long term care so there is no options at this time for her
Here's a funny thing I went to physical therapy because the stress had started to manifest itself in pain. My physical therapist knew my story and urged me too watch A Million Little Things. Three years I had not grieved because I couldn't talk to mom about Travis I had to pretend he was still alive for her. That show helped me so much. I began to grieve while watching that show. Now today I stumble across your page. God has a sense of humor and amazing love. To sum it up everyone can't get out. Its not because they are co dependents rather than surviving. That's real also.
I'm so thankful that you are using your voice.

Waiting for him to change, so I am single ❤️ not sharing feeling afraid of vulnerability

Dude can you lose that Bell?! It's sooo annoying

Good advice. Helped me identify and become more aware of issues at hand.

Thank you so much that gave me understanding. I’m very guilty of number eight🙏💪

Is anyone else watching these for the first time 3 years later? Late, but right on time!

What about you? Do you experience any of these in your own relationship? Can you share in the comments? You may help someone else identify an issue in their own relationship. Thank you for watching AND commenting! It really helps the channel.