4 Signs Narcissist Shows When You Defeat Them For Real #narcissist

I thought i will see my boyfriend's traits here meanwhile i see all these 4 signs in me

1. Extreme pressure to make you lash out at them
2. Use your guilt against you
3. Ignite jealousy to create false competitiveness with others
4. Pretend to be the victim

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People that assume that they know, but they don’t the people on the Internet, the storytellers the people that rewrite peoples stories

All you have to do is show them you care about them and they start freaking out and act out a fantasy where they are in control.

I did that to my own and they can’t stand it that at all! Loved it!

Just wanted to ask, if you block narcisist... will there be some big retaliation?

Mine did all four of these a few years ago, and when I broke out a lawyer, they shut right down.

N jealously aint happen captain. These people are so insecure n they end up w people way more insecure then themselves. 😂

Guilt? 😂 hahaha 😆 that's rich

Bhaiya hindi me bola kijiye samjh nhi aata

All 4!! Guess I'm on the right path.

i mother to a "t" lol

Exactly I m dealing with such person and loosing my mental peace 😢😢
I am worried about my life

She Checked all 4

I feel like I am on a cloud 9 during the narcissist outburst. I don't feel any pain but bewilderment. I wish they would repent. This video encourages me today. I am faced with tribalism-narcissism where a particular group and leadership of it is demanding my submission obedience and subjection, and often threatening with bullying and rude words

Boom. Truth.

Yes to all for especially prior to him passing .

My mom doesn't know where I am. She hasn't heard from me in 3+ years. No one is updating her about me as I've cut off everyone who's connected to her. I've heard she's had multiple "medical emergencies" and a "broken leg" since then. 🙄

Not that I didn't know it already. But🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 it sounds like a 100% beat a narcissist. This short video helps me out to realize that even more and I will not break the path of my success

Very impressive.

Amazing video A month ago, my partnership of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, l've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why l am saying this here.

Absolutely correct I lived this for 18 years not knowing that she was a narcissist I married her. She had walked away from my marriage seven times. And me being a husband wanting my marriage to work and I love to I accepted it. But not anymore she manipulated me lied to me and cheated on me disrespected me betrayed me kept secrets for me. Put herself out for other men's on the internet. Only if I knew then what I know now. But I'm going to move ahead better myself and trust in God and my faith. God is good

Amen 100% so true

You want to give it back to a Narcissist? Then ignore them completely as if they dont exist….it just drives them fkin mad 😂

Whatever you do keep your own phone.

Does moving my beloved Dad from his final resting place of 20 years without uttering a single word to me count as the biggest hurt they can cause me? Narc mother and sister. They will never be allowed near me ever ever again. Never.

Ignoring them is hard.. but removing their hopes is easy .

This dude here is very correct

AMEN JESUS!!! THANK YOU LORD JESUS CHRIST!!! AMEN JESUS!!!

Ignoring a narcissist is tge best they get so mad for anything

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Ha ha ha....I won

Slipper treatment is the best❤

They definitely get sad and quiet 😂😂😂😂

So currently majority of the male individuals in lab ....Oh no 😢😅.

Dealing with a narcissist can be challenging, but these 10 strategies can help you navigate interactions while protecting your well-being:

1. *Set Firm Boundaries*
Clearly define what behavior you will and won’t tolerate. Consistently enforce consequences if they cross lines (e.g., ending a conversation if they become disrespectful).

2. *Manage Your Expectations*
Accept that they may lack empathy or willingness to compromise. Adjust your expectations to avoid disappointment.

3. *Avoid Power Struggles*
Narcissists thrive on conflict. Refuse to engage in arguments or debates—stay neutral and disengage if tensions rise.

4. *Use the "Gray Rock" Method*
Become uninteresting: Respond minimally, avoid emotional reactions, and keep conversations factual/boring to discourage their need for drama.

5. *Don’t Take Their Behavior Personally*
Recognize their criticism or belittling reflects their insecurities, not your worth. Maintain confidence in your own values.

6. *Limit Sharing Personal Information*
Keep conversations superficial. Sharing vulnerabilities may give them ammunition to manipulate or exploit you later.

7. *Focus on Solutions, Not Emotions*
Frame discussions around practical outcomes (e.g., “How can we resolve this?”) rather than emotional appeals, which they may dismiss.

8. *Seek External Support*
Confide in trusted friends, family, or a therapist to validate your experiences and prevent isolation.

9. *Know When to Walk Away*
If the relationship becomes abusive or harms your mental health, prioritize your safety and consider cutting ties.

10. *Prioritize Self-Care*
Recharge through activities that nurture your physical, emotional, and mental health. Set aside time for hobbies, relaxation, and supportive relationships.

*Bonus Insight:* Accept that you cannot change them. Focus on controlling your responses rather than fixing their behavior.

The man I was married to was extremely jealous

Yes they pretend they are the victim

Yes they just use you and then toss you away

Yes they just use you and then toss you away

So right pathological liars they only care about themselves

So true

1 they do that... Definitely. The when I was not alright I was easily detonated and now they use it to try to detonate me so they can use reactional abuse

They will make you sick and still play victim
Nothing works with them they like chaos bullying and competition always having an upper hand
If they aren’t bullying you they are fighting with somebody else

God hold all accountable when they attack a chosen one it dont matter whom it is nor what it is

they cant guilt trip a chosen one by their wrong and evil doing and they cant play victim in gods eyes

I think I have defeated him

I dont take the bait 😂😂😂