Secrets to Healthy Relationships | Esther Perel | The Knowledge Project #71

Whether you're facing love challenges or just want to reconnect with your partner this episode offers the skills and behaviors to repair and build deeper more meaningful connections.

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I understand dhe had patents that survived the War most of American men over 65 survived the VietNam War where 58000 men died for………….

One of the best interviews. So great

Great questions and great answers by a wonderful lady.
Thank you.

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Great interviewer, excellent questions.

gold.

I am 75. It's never too late to learn and grow.
Looking back on family, upbringing, career, education, marriages, divorce, single parenting, raising two successful adults, living alone, surviving abuse, surviving cancer, starting over, and seeing all of the world events and changes I have lived through, Esther has covered the major issues of my entire life and given me hope for the next 25 years. I cannot go back, but I can go forward. With this information I can become the person and partner I have always thought I might be. Thank you Esther!

A divorce is a reorganization of the family. This is profound! Take time heal and come back to having healthy communication with a goal of fostering an intentional community for the sake of the children and loved ones, the end of a marriage should not be the end of the family!

Why do some people believe in therapy and some don’t? Meanwhile they can discuss, debate and receive/give advices from/to others?

Everytime I listen to her, I grow a little more

This interview is a hidden gem❤🎤

wow thank you for your tips and tricks . by far the best video on this topic i guess. i've watched thousands of these videos and also read comments below the video and some ppl are recommending a natural enhancer spanish fly . actually i bought it and great results i have tosay

Indeed an Amaazing interview , an amazing experienced therapist ,his thoughtful open questions were a key point for her well expressed responses 👌👌👍👍

Thank God for technology! How could we have been able to share a soul like Esther's as easily as we can do! Esther, in you I found a gem especially in the area of relationships.

Literally watching this after a break up where the other person cheated. If I had heard this woman’s interviews 3 or 6 months ago we might have made it 😢

Great information to reflect on and it honestly is helping me to move forward

This talk is so enlightening.
Ways of being we can’t articulate-Esther brings it. Imagine 2 people in a partnership listening to this and sharing a determination to do well in relationship despite our childhoods. Very valuable interview. ☑️

This was an awakening and validation for what I've done in my own relationships. Maybe in the future I can go forward healthier now. Thank you!

What a interesting interview 👏 👌 wish I learn this years ago

Esther is just amazing! Loved this interview👌

I’ve seen many of her videos. Initially I enjoyed some of her insights. However, it’s become clear from some of her comments, in fact the foundation of her approach, that she’s biased towards women, at the expense of men and their needs.

I love this video. Thank you and God bless you for the kind words.

I just love this Woman 🍀

How did she give a mic drop moment w/in 5 seconds of the episode opening?! YASSS!

Cheating is NOT a “mistake", you choose to have sex with other people , so break off the relation and stay SINGLE, that way you c an sleep around as much as you like !

He deserves better than a CHEATER ! WROTE BY, RICHARD ELIAS....

Loved this - there are no words

Major Takeaway: "Behind every criticism is a wish!" Whoa! that blew me away.

Listening to Esther is like getting tough love. She will debug your belief - which is our identity - but if you're really open for learning, you will see her point, and then you consider it.



Passion and stability are fictions for her - This made me uncomfortable because it's what I want and not yet ready to let go off too. Are they not realistic? Do couples inevitably fall apart? The couples that grow old together, what is their existence then? Is it so rare to the point we can't give it some credit anymore?



Lack of self-worth as the reason for not wishing or asking to avoid rejection. This goes back to 'we accept the love we think we deserve'. If you feel you're not worthy, you'll accept less, and vice versa.



I hope that as we learn as adults, more people will be direct and more expressive. Do our best to be self-aware, expect nothing but still give what we genuinely want or can. After all, we all need each other to make life meaningful.



Thank you to the Knowledge Project channel and Esther.

"Matting together is about aliveness"🎀

AMAZING CONVO!!!

Esther is amzing, but this is honestly the best Esther interview I have listened to... great questions.. thanks for bringing this to us

What a smart interviewer! Esther is brilliant as always

What a great interview! Thank you so much!

Watching this video created a problem for me , now I’m in love with Esther 😃

Love this interview so much. Wish I could find a lover and partner who embraces all these messages and advices: rituals, listen, keep relating as a lovers, check up on each other, do new things together... invest in the relationship basically... I’ll keep hopeful :)

Esther you are the friend I never had but now I do. I love listening to you. Your wisdom is so profound and has helped me tremendously.

Great interview

We all know that Esther is brilliant. But, can we stop for a moment and recognize how amazing this interviewer is? He asked very throughtful questions, which were both well prepared but also followed upon what Esther said right before being asked the question. He did not simply staged the questions to follow his prepared agenda. He was not affraid to be told that he had understood the issue differently than she sees it. He genuinely wanted to hear her opinion and learn from her, no matter if the answer starts with 'No, it is not that', or with 'Yes, you are right.' I think that this was my 4th or 5th time listening to this interview, and I come back to it at least twice a year. Thank you both!

A time n a place away with mental space. A strike of luck yes...... no matter how much I wanted to solve my situation,immobility forces oneself to live inside one's head more than the outside. I'd love to walk as I used to. Thanks.

Adds interrupting every 5 seconds - unbearable!

Thank you Esther. Thank you Shane. Today i grew a litle bit more. I understand better who i am and where i am going (or should going). It is always day one.

Cultivating desire on whom? Gimme me more credit, pls..... no FI! I know how to with the lack of the right object . Makes me feel so sad.

Absolutely Not "happening again"... When making parallels between your parents same as todays "misplaced refugees". A Totally different terrain!