I Don't Do 50/50 Relationships, HOWEVER... #dating #finance

Uncle ABL 😂 😏

So what the hell is the point of her working, if she gets to keep all of her money? How does that benefit ME?

A true keeper of the home works, Uncle ABL! Keeping a clean & tidy home, shopping & preparing nourishing meals, keeping up with the laundry so all have clean clothes, caring for the children (if any) including running them to school, music lessons, sports practices/games, and then there are the extras, if you have time: decorating your home to be an inviting and relaxing oasis for those who live there, caring for others outside your home- meals to a new mom or ill friend, caring for a friend’s children while she goes to an appointment, etc… I do not know too many homemakers who sit around on the couch while children are at school! Your daily work is never finished, and tomorrow you get up and do it all over again!

50/50 I can do what I want.

Keeping and maintaining a home for a family is not just pushing buttons when the kids are at school Sir! Tell you what, I will be the bread winner and you take care of the home, kids, appointments and errands full time. Let's see if you are just pushing couple buttons.

Bring back traditional men 🎉
While ladies:
cooking, cleaning, taking care of the children/ hubby, while keeping ourselves looking good and ready for bedtime 💋

What's up with being he said it too many times.

Okay. 😂 I need to see the full interview/podcast. Where is it???

1.The question of why shouldn't she split bills 50/50 with a man is emasculating.
2. I have this setup with my husband. It works for us. I do most of the cleaning but he helps if I haven't gotten to it yet. He cooks the meat, I cook the sides, dessert, or he will make the sides if I don't feel well. He does his own laundry, but I'll throw it in when he's busy.
3. My husband would be financially fine and house wouldn't be a wreck nor would he starve without me. We add to each other's lives because we love each other. He wants me to work because I spent time on my career and it means a lot to me to have my own security. And if anything happened to him, the kids and I would be OK on my own income.
4. I'm generous with giving gifts because he treats me so well that I want to love him back and perpetuate this cycle of a stable, loving household.

I think you have a right to have the relationship that works best for you and I does not sound unreasonable. I just hope that you won’t discredit stay at home moms such as myself and the work that we attempt to do. I was not raised to be a wife or mother and have tried to and continue to put the pieces together with no guidance. Some of us are really successful at being human beings while the rest of us are struggling a little compassion goes a long way ❤

Yes cuz an idle mind is the devils playground.

LOL!!! HOMEMAKERS WORK HARDER THAN WOMEN WHO WORK OUTSIDE THE HOME!
THEY NEVER CLOCK OUT AND RARELY EVER THANKED FOR THEIR SERVICE TO ALL!

I will work and pay all of the bills.
She can stay home and clean the house. Make sure it smells good all the time.
Take care of the gardens, vineyards, and farm. Make sure we got all the food and herbal supplementation worth $2000 a month per person to eat from from the farm I got.
Help educate the children.
And do everything that has to do with a homestead.

What i get from his message is do what's best for you, not what he says

If I get married I’m going to hire a made a cook and baby sitter and then I’m going to make my wife do whatever I say all day

Dude is dumb.
I don’t believe in 50/50.
I believe in 100/25 ? Huh?
I want a part time career woman and part time housewife. Go make real money so you don’t seem like a bum

That's racist

Homemakers have side dude and are DL lesbians. Them the biggest cheater

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I don't do 50/50, i do 100/100

You can stay single if you dont think a homemaker works. Lets see you have a baby...ladies you canskip this one😮😮😮😮

Listen people it’s all about his choice
If the woman is a woman and I repeat a WOMAN then a man will naturally take care of her, for those that didn’t get that I’m saying if she is worth it/ deserve it because every woman doesn’t qualify for that just like every woman ain’t a Lady ……levels to this sh🤫t

What if she don’t get fat?
That’s was the part getting in my nerves cause why you keep saying that.

Don’t don’t wanna be home no more getting fat

I respectfully disagree. I think a woman can work if SHE wants, but she shouldn't HAVE to work.

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I dont want my kids in that indoctrination camp. I'd rather have her homeschool the kids that'll be her job on top of everything else.

We need all the men to be taking notes from ABL

Now, ABL, a woman who takes care of the home is the best gift you could ever have. Now, I do agree that just sitting around getting fat is not okay. However, working in the home IS work.

I was taught each person gives 100% that’s part of the symbol of the rings.
David Lee Roth said it best the three rings of a relationship are:
1. Engagement ring
2. Wedding ring
3. The suffer ring
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so you he believe in 70/30 thats still reasonable...outdated but reasonable

I wholeheartedly agree, I would still like to work while cook and clean

There is nothing wrong w what ABL said. The man is the head & the wife is the help mate. It does take a lot to run a house, but it is doable while working. Love traditional men😊

PREACH Uncle ABL. 😊

agree.....be active and proactive......don't be lazy! ......

This mentality is what got him where he's at... 😂😂😂😂

That’s cool. I’m need a mf to share this stress and these bills.

When i was 16 in highschool i already knew what i wanted in a woman and this is it ABL. Youre on point💯 fast forward i have it and she actually amazes me shes times 3

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That works for me

That's fair. I agree with that.

You both give 100%in the Marriage or Relationship a lot of couples learn the hard way during the pandemic.

Exactly. But actually relationships are 💯/ 💯.

Everybody is confused about 50/50. It means BALANCED, and balance looks different for every couple. Usually it involves communication and sacrifice to figure out how that balance works, and BOTH parties have to be willing to carry more than 50 if necessary.... The head cannot move without an able neck.

Some people say they're half an orange looking for their other half but that way you're stuck together not moving. Really if you're both whole oranges then you both roll complete.

If you have more than one kid it's a fulltime job IMO.

Kids being raised by strangers is bad for the mom and the kid. I've seen new mothers breaking down at work because they missed their baby so much. Most daycares are pretty gross and bad for child development.
There's tons of ways to be active as a SAHM especially if you have higher education. I wouldn't be involved in mom groups more than knowing my kid's friends' moms. I'd be keeping up my skills volunteering and teaching my kids about service too.

In a perfect world, people wouldn't have children until they could support them on one income.

My mom was a housewife. Its far from pushing buttons. They do a hundred different things so that the husband and the kids can focus on their job/education. This man is well-intentioned but sadly ignorant. Maybe some housewives are lousy but it is unfair to dismiss the others who go above and beyond for their families out of pure love.

The men that are powerful dont choose the woman you describe. They dont attract. Energeticly they dont match so men that provide fearlessly also recieve amazing partners . Think energy. Fearful 50/50 men get fearful women that take.