Why You MUST Reject Your Ex (If You Want Them Back)

Why do you say dont do no contact if you cheated? I did seek attention else where bc we didnt communicate the way we should. We had a good relationships at first 11 years i told her i wasnt happy the last 2 years nothing changed so i talked to other girls. I feel like im gonna move on but ive been doing no contact and shes been sending random messages and still angry. She is seeing a guy whos bad news we have kids is the only reason that matters. But i feel like she still cares. Just curious

What if an ex doesn't get an answer from me? Wouldn't he just give up?

What about this text from my ex gf, should I ignore or respond?: I hope you are good!!

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Question: Does giving them the breakup and thanking them for the closure cause a feeling of rejection? Thank you.

I don’t see how rejection might rise someone’s value. Must be a very insecure person. If someone rejects me, I don’t want them anymore. What for? Also seems like playing games which is always immature.

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I’m seeing this from the opposite end, i had to break up with my gf because it was disfuncional and unstable. She’s the one calling me, i’m trying to move on but seeing her suffer really breaks my heart, it hurts. I feel like a withdrawing addict too.

She messaged me to offer to help me get information about real estate in Dubai since she's getting to know people who knows about it now. And I had asked her about 6 months ago if she had contacts and could help me with it.
But I answered "Thanks, but no thanks. I'm good" roughly translated. And I got a ❤️ response. That was 30 days ago, and nothing since.

My ex tried manipulate me saying im not interested and i said its cool no worries goodbye. Was amazing to finally not give a shot about uer mind games. Today i secured a job for 80000 so im over the moon. Thank you for your amazing video

The only text message I want to see is “will you give me another chance?” and followed up with some serious groveling.

Sending someone a message that you’re not interested and then 2 months later randomly messaging them just because you matched with their friend is crazy work lol. No wonder he took a week to respond to you. Bro didn’t want to play games.

That example... ultimately it is quiet simple. Once someone rejects you/changes the terms, regardless if its pre-dating, dating, relationship, or whatever, you move forward and never looking back. From that point on the other party has to put in crazy effort, like 100% reaching out, calling, etc. At that point its them who need to earn an other chance and not the other way around.

what if he broke up with me a month ago, and now he just sent a casual message for my birthday saying also I hope you will have a great day! Should I reply or not?

Lucia, he was playing games with you very, very silly of him. Have a great day!

Can not wishing a happy birthday to someone who broke up with you be viewed by them as a form of rejection? Wishful thinking on my part 😂. Thanks Artist of Love.

52 days NC. Refuse to respond to a breadcrumb. Thank you Lucia. You are the bomb.

I responded but i was cold 🥶

Emm no, rejection doesnt spark any interest in me, quite the opposite! You dont want me? Too bad, bye

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The story you are talking about is very bad I am sorry....

Interesting. Bunch of games though that you and him played. Hopefully Guys and Girls can learn to rather not contact at all or ignore fully if they're not interested knowing that the other is. Good video though!

If you responded to breadcrumbs and it went no where, it still wouldn’t have went no where if they ignored. I think it’s on a case by case basis

I can be wrong, but why don't we stick to the obvious, to mathematics? I'm not afraid to show love to someone, I show I'm interested and hope the same, now if a person shows rejection, I get turn off too not because I want the person back it's just because it's a game and I don't like it, game shows an immature person, immature people = children, and Children don't make love, don't raise a family, come on guys we have only one life, we're going to cemetery, why to complicate things? There are more important purposes in life to worry abou, the electricity bill or every possible bill to pay...

A week after he broke up with he send me a text how I was doing and he was thinking of me despite everything that happened. When I was available to meet up to talk some more about the breakup. He broke up with me because he had no feelings for me. I told him there was no need for me to meet up anymore and no reason to talk. I got a really long text after that about the extreme guilt he felt. I didn't respond anymore. I don't know if I made him obsessed, but I know he was shocked he could not talk to me anymore whenever he wanted.

Woo! Whoo, Lucia! You're the judge, committee and jury huh? lol. Woman please. Your advice is on point, but your attitude is hyped out. Often our "types" are arranged window displays, not solid building materials. "We don't always get what we want; we get what we need." He was not lucky, lol. It's cool "you gave him a chance," your highness. Great message in your words though.

Hi I did download it it was a game changer makes it so easy to stay in no contact ty for this

This is so unbelievably toxic. This psycho relishes her insecure attachment style. I hope the validation of someone watching her stories first keeps her warm at night lol. She attracts people who are just as toxic as she is.

The guy is feminine for entertaining her; she had no interest from the start, respectfully thank her for her time and move on. Nothing else left to do. Men, learn to take rejection like a gentleman , move on. More options than stars out there.

He broke up with me other day and broke my heart..then last night he txt saying he still wants me and he is so sorry for hurting me...i think he was deunk so i told him i appreciate his txt but i prefer if he didnt drink txt me...he replied saying hes not drinking and said night night and i didnt reply. Do u think he will chase me

Why would you want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with you? -Scarlet Johansson

I just asked my ex out on a date. It’s been about 2 months since the break up. I canceled on her. I
I told her I honestly wasn’t feeling okay. She then asked later If I was actually telling the truth. It was. Any thoughts?

I'm the one who walked away from him. I've been disrespected, lied to, dishonest, manipulated, gaslighted and I finally had enough and told him it's over. He never took me serious until I went on NC for a couple of days and sent him a final text. Then he called, we talked for 3 minutes and he asked me what did I do? And said he's a good man. Lol the audacity to think you're the victim. He called and texted but I ignored. The next day, he sent me a text saying he's officially done with me. I didn't respond. I don't want him back unless he works on himself which I suspect that won't happen. I loved him but He's very unhealthy for me. Should I just ignore him?

I don’t chase

I replace

If you reject afoidant ex by ignoring the breadcrumbs its all over. You will not hear from him/her ever again. Their biggest fear is to being rejected

If people wanna get back with their ex, it needs to be slow and gradual. If you just jump right back in, it’s gonna end again. Gotta take it slowwwwww

In this case this guy was completely wrong to even keep talking to Lucia. If anyone tells you they are interested in your friend in that situation, you shouldn't even respond anymore! Then this same person comes back telling you they "matched with your friend" and you still engage a conversation? Wtf!?? What kind of jerk texts someone to say that?? I think this guy was actually messing with Lucia the whole time, which in that case, she deserved!! Well done!! 👏🏻👏🏻

My ex is in a rebound for around 3 months. She continues to call and text. Non of which I've answered. I accidentally sent a text to her on what's app which was meant for someone else. She acted on this saying she has seen a deleted text and asked if I was ok. I've not responded as yet but I don't want her thinking I sent a nasty text and then deleted it. Not sure whether to send a text explaining it was sent in error and then fall back into no contact

Watching a story made him obsessed 😂😂

She told me about a relationship that she had before me. She broke it off with him and never spoke to him again. It was a three month relationship. I was a 6.5 months relationship and she ghosted me. Her MO is to ghost and never contact the partner again. She also said she doesn’t chase. So if we broke up don’t look for her she’s not coming to get me. I’m at almost 6 months no contact. I see she’s a woman of her word. I don’t think I’ll ever hear from her ass again.

My ex put me in a three way group chat with our mutual friend (more her friend than mine though) where she breadcrumbs me there. Her friend responds to all of them. If I don't it looks bad because i'm not contributing to the group convo. I guess I have no choice but to ignore them anyways and sacrifice the group convo?

In no contact now for 4 weeks. How can I get her to reach out ? Ugh

Very Good Clip So TRUE

It is all about loss aversion. We worry more about losing things rather than gaining things. We know what we already have and hate to lose what we have. We should be focusing on how much better the next thing is, but we instead focus on not losing what we already have. You need to switch your focus onto the next thing rather than what was lost. Focus on abundance and growth. When things don't go well and I lose something in life I tell myself "the next is always better"

Fantastic video! I’ve learned some tough lessons being dumped

5 days of no contact I broke up with her and tired of the games ! Stay strong army

I had someone come back of 20 odd years
I rejected him

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Message I received was after some breadcrumbs I answered, pause for 11 days, then she called me, I didn’t answer but after 2.5 hours I’ve texted that I was busy and she texted back “it’s ok, we’ll talk next time, I hope you’re ok”. In answered yes, I’m good, I hope you too and after that is silence NC since 30 something days.
But I’ve got your message and your messages, I go on with my life, we’ll see what happens and no answering anymore to breadcrumbs.

Out of curiosity, what is your type?