The Ultimate Dating Guide for 50s: Find Love Again

You are so dramatic ! I think you have a baggage from your past .

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Women add little benefit to a man’s life is a harsh statement. I know you’re protecting your team, but with this whole young women’s movement against men (I’m not part of this), aren’t you suggesting that men do the same to women? Two wrongs don’t make a right and I don’t have the answer. I think the internet and social media pretty much killed dating and created a bunch of entitled narcissists. Sad - anyway, good day to you. Single Lady in her 50s (yes, I know, no market value here)

I don't need to date . I enjoy my own space time and peace. Don't need to share my hard earned money with a stranger with kids or without kids. If need sex I pay for it . With no conditions together it

I’m in my late 50s. Done with menopause. Was married most of my adult life. No kids. I swim daily. I feel that dating is so overrated. It seems Way too complicated. With Too much drama. My recommendation is to Stay close to family. Trust God and allow him to lead and guide you. Make friends with many people not to date just friends. Join a clubs, continue working for a good company. that’s really helping me and gives me purpose. Definitely get cats or dogs they are the best companions. I have two cats and they are absolutely the BEST!!! I’m completely enjoying life and sharing kindness and compassion to awesome people that I meet. I love working in my yard. Cleaning my house. Im currently preparing my home for senior living for when I enter into my 70s or 80s. My entire point is stop FOCUSING ON DATING, continue building genuine friendships.

im in my 50's - i dont mind a woman with children , as long as they are over 18 (better out of the house but if they in collage etc then they get a pass)

Lucky I never wanted children. The risk for woman is high for getting trapped in a toxic marriage.

Been married for 30 years. Lost her to Alzheimer's. She was a single mom with a child and executive
. I was 23 and she was 33 when we got married. She was my entire world... My best friend. Now I am starting all over. Thank you for the information. Best of luck to you...

57 now but have been active enough over the years that if I dress a little I still get looks from women which at my age I so appreciate. I like flirting w/ the young girls & think its pretty harmless fun. Great friends w my ex wife too. I dont necessarily want a full time relationship, have tried that numerous times with 1 lady but we get to a certain point & she starts getting demanding so I bow out. I love having the freedom to do whatever I want whenever I want. If I meet someone great but now I just take it 1 day at a time now & just let it happen or not. Its just aleviated all of that stress around relationship expectations etc. Free & easy thats how I want my social life & free time.

As always great advice!!!

As not an intended audience for this, as a woman, I run into this site by accident and started to listen. Interesting perspective, old bold men chasing youngsters, to increase their egos. Wait till you get sick, cancer or other disease, and see how many of those "younger" chicks will stick with you and take care of you, like a real partner. Good luck.

Ultimate Dating Guide:

Dont do it ! Dont chase ass, chase excellence. Laser focus on being the best version of yourself, Men. Modern women are total pathological, gold digging nightmares. Guaranteed you can have a ton more fun with your Bros.

Why even bother dating in your 50's? Better to just protect your wallet and your peace.

Find a woman who is actively working on personal development. Game changer.

Caveman mentality

These kind of videos are great for offering obvious common sense but they always assume that a guy has choices and options.

That he's provided with enough of a selection that he can actually pick and choose the women.

That he can look for red flags and identify future problems to assess from the options laid out before him who would be suitable.

I'm sorry but this is just bullshit. The women aren't out there.

OLD's have decimated those previous social opportunities. After work drinks are rare, Friday nights are no longer and women are drawn to the easy and safe selection of swiping on their apps.

I'm 53 and it's a shit show. I'm not looking for the one. I'm not seeking the ultimate friend. I'm looking for anything.

Just a spark of being noticed. Just a hint of being desired. Just an exchange. My aspirations in dating are so low that just an interaction would be nice but nothing is happening.

I am just invisible. Yes I have my hobbies and my passions. I still love clubbing for trance music which I pursue. I enjoy the cinema which I'll go to on my own if I have to.

I go to events on my own, I holiday on my own, I'll even now go out to bars on my own but I'm like the Predator with his cloaking device on.

I'm 5'10, around 175 pounds, take pride in my appearance, dress well, smell good. I know how to converse, I'm reasonably intelligent and I have no baggage.

But this idea that there are a host of options for me to pick and choose from is just ridiculous.

Women aren’t looking for guys in the deli aisle at the supermarket, they aren’t going to Salsa classes and even the older ones are receiving so much dopamine and validation from OLD and Social Media that they aren’t giving you the chance to pre-select them.

They aren’t proactively looking for guys. They have been reduced ro only being reactive and hence before anyone tells me that I should maybr not try looking and stoically wait for them to seek me out is literally talking out of their arse.

I know should be unfazed and upbeat but when you keep experiencing the same shit week in, week out you have to just call it out.

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9 minutes in. True thinking

Man like you is why great women in their 50s don't date anymore. Thats why you get the ones you just descrived. Keep chasing younger woman, and one day they will make you remember how old you are. 😊

Single mom point was spot on

Oh my gosh, you are delulu. I have never encountered this before, but this is the worst advice thank God you got a book deal

For men who are saying negative things about women over 50, if you want a woman 20 years younger, that's your preference and your business. However, stop putting women down for aging, which is something beyond anyone's control (including yours). Stop lying and saying it's a matter of staying in shape, dressing the right way, and having the right attitude. It's not.
Women over 50 are invisible (men look through me, and don't even HEAR me). Unless we get plastic surgery, but then we're called "superficial" for trying to look better. There's just no winning.
So just stop trashing women who are your age, that's all I'm asking.

Date a woman on the spectrum like i have.
Soulmate and friend.

man, you got it all figured out.

I want peace, not love. Although I plan on buying and training a new puppy so I get the love and the puppy gets the love. We call them 'Dog Men".

I've been dating off n on 10 years. Mens baggage has been the main issue I run into. Maybe its that men don't tell other men, they find talking to a woman easier to open up to.

Sorry us Gen X ladies are going through menopause. It ain’t fun.

This guy is very shallow!

Wow somebody really hurt this guy- he's so bitter.

One of the biggest challenges when dating in your 50s for both men and women is that their perceived physical attractiveness decline. According to one study, "Females were considered significantly less attractive (−10.43, p < 0.01) and less feminine (−7.59, p < 0.01) per decade with the greatest drop over age 40 years. Male attractiveness and masculinity were relatively preserved until age 50 years where attractiveness scores were significantly lower (−5.45, p = 0.39)".

Source: Keon M. Parsa, Amir A. Hakimi, et al. Understanding the Impact of Aging on Attractiveness Using a Machine Learning Model of Facial Age Progression, 2023.

Enjoying your practical advice channel. Refreshing from the usual 'mens' advice channels, especially those that target the younger men in our society. Do you think (since I am a Boomer with a sightly younger man I'm dating and we adore each other, imagine that?) your book would help me help me understand a man's mind in this world of today? and create more empathy for the other 50% of humanity? I so want us to have the best years of our lives, be those years ahead of us, and so does he! I really want to treat him right for the rest of our lives! Am I delusional? or do you think we can do this and be happy? Thanks!

Hard on the 50 women a lot. I'm 55. I suggest traveling. I'm free. Learned. I see I'm lumped in with all the crazies here, lol
I'm not an ATM. Different living places. That's why I travel.
Good luck.

I’ve been single for 10 years as I prioritized my job and my kids and trying to start my own business. I feel like I may be finally ready to consider dating again. I don’t want to die alone. But I really like my freedom. I don’t mean freedom to go out and party or date casually. I mean watching whatever I want on TV, eating what I want when I want, spending the whole day cleaning house if I want, or leave the house messy if I feel like it. Men: am I asking too much? I just want a man who doesn’t smell bad, doesn’t drink excessively, doesn’t smoke, keeps in shape, has a job, is not a felon, and can make me laugh.

Kinda negative about women…. i would NEVER read your book. Your just into looks and expect perfection

Im single younger, who prefers datting and commiting to ONE man older than me, vs somebody yonger than me bec i feel like they are time waisters. Just being honest and transparent ultimately is wha everybody wants. but social media make it easy for peeps to do easy hookups

Gosh, you were so hurt to arrive to this point. Sorry for you. Would love to see guys who are “seeking” for a “union with a woman” (friendship, love etc) 😂 haven’t seen men like this at all. My personal opinion: you can not give an advise to date women from 40 and above if you did not date any from that range as you state from the beginning of your speech. Good luck with your permissive chick 🐥. Good point: have your interests. And another good point - if you’re intellectually not advanced and are not able to take responsibilities, then yes - better stay away from women with kids. On the point with ATM: 🏧 give possibility to women earn as much as any guy, then probably you will not seen as additional ATM. POV: Currently you are ATM for all women at any age. Difference: those women who are older than 20 have other strategies to arrive to ATM 😂 and are not so direct. Otherwise what you exist for?
This speech usually hold user who are short of money - with other words - non capable to earn enough to cover for himself and the family. In this case just date 20-30, have fun and each goes his /her direction.🎉

Your channel is for immature men. Sorry. 😢

Just turned 60. I’m in South Florida so there’s an abundance of chicks in 40s, 50s, and even early 60s that look and bang great. They’re tan, get mommy tucks and front porch redone. They’re empty nesters and are desperate for attention.

I’m tall, jacked and make decent money (the amount of wealth on waterfront from Miami to West Palm is crazy so I lag a bit in that department) but guys all go for young ladies. Fit Cougars will absolutely bang you silly and I have little competition

Rather have 10 fit cougars than have 1/10th of a chick in 20s

They ALL want a Meals-On-Wheels.. as usual there will always be a long line of thirsty lovesick puppy dogs behind these 1000,000 mile Ford Pintos who think they are still Lamborghinis ..falling over themselves for the faintest whiff or breadcrumb of an innuendo or attention....
Ain't no fool like an old fool.

I don’t like traveling alone. It’s not as fun.

Can understand men going with younger women. Nearly all the older ones. Have so much baggage and seem to mostly B sour moaners that can’t stop. All u need is a rare thing an attractive fit. Woman with a personality. Seem to B. Distinct

Avoid baggage...avoid menopause, 3 marriages and multiple boyfriends, kids on the home, a woman with money and a six figure career.... crazy expectations, plain crazy, Jesus man, its the apocalypse for men.

No beta bucks!!

This is so true, chill with your brother. Do not pedestalize a woman.they arent the solution.

Wow I must be in the 1%. I have 0 drama and never bring the past into a relationship. No menopause drama here 😂

“Women don’t add much benefit to your life!” Spot on!!! They sure can f it up for you though.

Stay single, gents!