Why Women Are SCARED of You and How to Change It (Secret Revealed)

If you need a man to lead you by the nose and pump you long and hard because you’re disgusting? Don’t tell that man that he can be a boy who is free to trust you, when, in fact, he can’t.

All the mens problem again

Wow..😮 wow..😮 "Deep sigh" lots to process.. Good luck guys.. 😮

Wearing tassels as ear bling, would surely do it 🤔😱

Boo !!!

At this point, who cares. Let them go!

When women do this childish stuff its an indication that they are unstable and you should stay away and block all contact. good riddance!

Why am everything that happen blamed on males??? Everything am blamed on males, where am the woman's accountability??? Surely you doesn't believe that womens am perfect and never does anything wrong!?!

Before watching this video, not only women but men are afraid of me. Can't help I'm a trained fighter with no expression beyond a poker face, but I will only laugh and smile when I hear a good joke or see something funny happen.

Women can feel wary if a guy seems overly intense or impatient. Approaching with a genuine smile, lighthearted conversation, and not rushing things can instantly make her feel at ease. Sometimes less is truly more!

So...
We go back to being nice guys?
I'm lost 😕

Actually, I am LEARNING to be less and less "needy."

I think that last thing you said was really something I needed to hear. I''ve been avoiding dating because I'm trying to fix my own anxious attachment tendencies, but I think that's maybe like trying to learn to fly without a plane or even a flight simulator. You can't really do any actual practice of it or train new brain pathways that lend themselves to the healthy route.

Shout out 12 step meetings! I go to many of them. Actually just left one! Pretty easy when I qualify for basically every fellowship!

LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY FEMALES, MEN HAVE LEARNED THE HARD VALUABLE LIFE LESSON EXPERIENCES THAT NO FEMALE , NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES ARE WORTH THE TIME MONEY OR EFFORT SPENT, IF YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO LISTEN AND LEARN FROM OTHERS UNFORTUNATE MISTAKES THAN YOU CAN BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL NOT TO MAKE THE SAME, THROUGH MY EXPERIENCES AND THE EXPERIENCES OF OTHER MEN , LEARNED THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH THAT A SITUATIONSHIP, OR RELATIONSHIP IS BASED ON THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE AND TOLERATION , AFTER MANY YEARS OF NOT DATING, I AM THANKFUL, AND GRATEFUL TO NOT PLAY GAMES WITH PEOPLES MINDS, BE AT PEACE WITH SERENITY AND SOLITUDE RATHER THAN BE ALONE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER FEMALE , JUST ANOTHER MANS OPINION, I DO NOT GIVE A DAMN WHAT YOU DO WITH IT .

I'm furious that, at every turn, I must confront the likelihood that whatever emotion at any given time stems from a root of dysfunction! that somehow my response to the way I'm being treated is toxic, damaging, out of sync, inappropriate, and overall too selfish for thoughtful consideration by the love interest at hand! however, it's expected that I be mindful, hyper intuitive, exaggeratedly sentimental, catering the emotional atmosphere against collapsing the storybook dreamworld bubble inflated by the female ego establishing extremely unreasonable and varying standards that are invariably impossible to satisfy! otherwise be prepared for emasculation. suffer rage and the denial of intimacy! ready myself for vindictive retaliation, endure brow beatings of any kind regarding whatever is clever to nag on whether relevant or not...... all the while maintain stoic resolve, careful not to exhibit any dismay or revolt against the whipping of the boy, cuz mama ain't havin it! furious that my sincerity is criticized, even diminished when apologizing when attempting to make amends for violations of her delicate persona! never having done enough or expressed adequate remorse! they endlessly gripe about a lack of consideration for their emotional well being yet completely ignore a man's possession of sensibilities and a heart! I'm furious that a double standard is the status quo!

is this help or create more insecurity

In my city many women openly walk around with either a mattress on her back or dating and married women used to the catering compliments with over revealing clothes in mental pampers so when reality happens in front of them, the bleep comes out both ends.🐒🎈

"What ever the "man" coaches tell you is total BS"(thought that was funny for some reason). The reason I like your channel is because It's important to spot red flags and know when to leave. But it's also important to know the differance between that and know when and how to build a relationship and I feel like you teach these things. Thanks for the video Sarah and see you in the next one.

I just watch these to look at Sarah. Hey girl 😉

Don't care. I will do me. If she doesn't like it, too bad. If she likes me, good. I am WYSIWYG.

All I hear is blah, blah blah. And annoying background music. But, I'd still hit it!

Women are stupid!

I have been on many first dates.. it's a crap shoot.. one person likes the other person more. The other person doesn't like the other.. I am successful financially stable have manners housebroken funny witty. Not a bad boy. Still get turned down...

just pointing finger at men again.

thanks feminism

This just happened less than 12 hours ago:
A woman at the grocery store has been extra nice to me for a while , last Saturday I found out she is from the same town I have a factory and apartment in and again she was super nice to me .
I asked a "almost" former employee (she never showed up and kept making excuses and after 7 days I just stopped wasting time on her) she said the woman was single and did not have a boyfriend.
Yesterday I ran into her at the grocery store , I asked her if she was married or seeing anyone she said "no". Then I asked her if she would like to have lunch some day.
She replied "I have a boy friend" and laughed at me.

is this codepentce

Why is it what a Woman is looking for in a Man, do you guys ever take ownership for what you do to men, 90% of women blame men in their relationships and a very HIGH percentage are the ones who have affairs, the giveaway, going to meet my girlfriends however, they have balzz. Back off the men, what triggers men is most women are bitches when we don't agree with you then payback is you cut us off, and only nice when you want to cover up your wrongdoing while dating other men Married or Single doesn't matter...

Yout pretty smart. Cute too

HALLOWEEN is over so I will stop scaring her away.

Trauma prevents me from having healthy relationships

My husband has always said money is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Throw them $$$$, then they r ecstatic

Women are weak. Its so hard to respect them. They're so soft yet paradoxically not feminine. hmm that makes me wonder. i wonder if the traditional feminine was actually ever that soft. I think they are soft today because of anxious generation stuff maybe, the coddling of the American mind

Thank you for this video it helps a lot

How would I talk to you about my situation with a woman that I met and I like, I think she is gun shy and rightfully so .

Hi Sarah. I recently opened up to a woman about past traumas with whom I've known for over a year. I made a mistake by acting insecure when she stopped responding to my texts for 2 weeks. She was very cold and distant. It made me feel unwanted. When we got back in contact, I said to her the following:

"Have you ever been stood up and ghosted by someone when you thought everything was going just fine? No explanation no nothing? Guess my past experiences make me think the way I do sometimes. I don’t like to make women I’m attracted to my therapist. I just want you to understand. Apology accepted though."

I followed up not longer after that acknowledging I'm healing from past traumas and owning them. I told her thank you for helping me see where I can grow and improve as a man. I blamed myself for my reactions not her. I also told her I could have asked the right questions and communicated more effectively. Thoughts and comments please.

The nice guy syndrome is a real thing, and it is the cause of 60 plus years of indoctrination to convince men that they are not good enough AS MEN.

If she can't handle my dominant presence as a confident combat veteran, she doesn't deserve me...

Next...

If that entails remaining single, so be it...

She is always in awesome hotel rooms! I hope she has amazing sex in those sweet rooms!

I have been working on this for almost 2 years. It extremely difficult I have my ups and downs. Everything you said about anxious attachment is exactly how it hits me. Even the upbringing is exactly like what you said.

I have to force myself to pause, many times a days in some cases when it comes to talking to a potential partner. I have to remind myself to just take a chill pill. Hopefully one day it becomes more natural as of right now that's the best way that I can regulate.

Turn away from all unstable actress,! Men became way too forgiving!!!!

She met chad with a 6 figure salary

Excellent Talk... Good advices. Communication, in authenticty is sooo helpful in all stages yet certainly in the establishing of one. It creates understanding not drama.

Excess makeup. Squirrelly acting, verbose, useless info.

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