HEALTHY MEN - BROKEN MEN & TOXIC MEN by RC Blakes

Great Day! I don't know how we can be so focused, setting boundaries and working towards healing and still get caught up with the wrong person. Speaking for myself... I received warning over and over again. He kept trying every time I broke it off and I kept falling back into the relationship only to realize again that he was not the man for me. Spirit reminded me again and again until it became silent (do what you want) you've been warned 😔 We have to be ever so keen to our Spirit and the direction we are being lead in.

Sometimes people attach themselves to you because they see you, who you are and the value you bring to their lives. All while bringing nothing of themselves but toxicity. I am so grateful, although quite, my Spirit wouldn't let me rest and has a subtle way of saying, "There is better for you, this is not what you asked for" 🙌

THREE TYPES OF MAN
1️⃣ NATURAL MAN
2️⃣ CARNAL MAN
3️⃣ SPIRITUAL MAN

Yes Lord!! Love that motto. We got to live thins thing. " Let your walk talk"
(Tee shirt quote) Bishop

Yes

Bless you pastor and First Lady❤

Schools and the black church needs this. Crazy plp can name 5 ways to be motivated in your day from church but can’t name 1 flaw they have that dismantles the black family and home

I'm tired of being the right woman to make a man want to changeeeee

I hear you perfect

This is old

Lately / these seasons, it's been proven , that toxic men have a huge - tribe/ group , now !!!

LAWDHAMERCY!!
The message gonna come through ain’t it!!!
Thank you for this timely word❤

Social engineering has had a major influence on mens viewpoint on how to treat women and absent fathers. Which teaches men to walk away from their responsibilities

I dated a guy who told me I was boring, He said i have the same routine. I told him there was nothing wrong with having a routine. Then he told me that next time we go out, I can buy!

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Mines is emotionally unavailable, has vices, and only wants sex when it's convenient.

I usually get the broken men

As a person who didn’t have guidance from his father in life, these are the facts.

Wow

Could you break down more examples of guarded.

Wish I would have known of you when I was younger

I'm late watching this, but it has helped me. I just ended a relationship with a broken man.

Yes it is

Preach pastor thank you !

Healthy men characteristics:
1. Reject misogyny beliefs and think he’s the prize
2. In sync with god-spiritual
3. Know why he exists
4. Love all women (sisters, mothers, co-workers etc; he protects the womanhood)
5. Whole enough to support all that his woman is and wise enough to see his woman as the extension of him. Pay attention to his languages. He should not diminish/demean you.
6. He always pours into your self-esteem bank
7. Healthy man is a giver (time, money, etc) and a listener
8. He supports (not just financially)
9. He’s unguarded. He answers questions
10. He has a stable disposition.
11. He’s interested in you. He’s concerned about the well-being of you.
12. He has a track record of healthy relationships. ( long-term friendship; decent relationships with parents; even with exes-always talk about the good)
13. Grace to empower the woman; he will make your life better.

Thank you sir

28/4/2024❤

Although, the external looks of a man brings u in but the inward values and character is what is most important and how u know one's true self. Looks fave but the inward remains true.

Everything you saying is the truth

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Bishop always hilarious in his teachings albeit solid great advice, thank you Sir.

It's the 🛑 popping all this gum taking all these Booty pictures ,Let's have a Self Respect Challenge Now .TRUTH In the Pudding.

💗🙏. Yes. 100% the truth

At one of my previous workplaces, there was a broken man there. He was one of the managers, and he was acting as an alpha male. To me, he seemed more like Gaston from Beauty and the Beast.

He was always talking sooo loudly in the staff canteen about his search for sex with women, and thought he was very interesting, I could hear him talking when I wasn't even in the canteen, ha was that loud.
He had his own designated chair in the canteen, and other managers did gather around him, they fueld his huge ego.
He was very tall, and had an interesting hairstyle, and was really muscular, and all in all good-looking, he looked distinct at that workplace, but he was so disgusting, his personality, mannerisms, the way he talked, his arrogance, his energy. I didn't like being around him, he always wanted to be the center of attention.
Ha also believed he could get any women in the workplace.
Ha had a girlfriend/fiancé back then yet he was constantly looking for sex partners and affairs, was flirting with everyone he just could.
One of my colleagues had a secret connection with him, and he was using her, but as my colleague was also broken, I think they used each other as they loved playing games woth eachother.
I don't know how his fiancé can deal with this type of person but he might be using different masks in different situations. He was also very fake, I could tell that person didn't have authenticity.

RC BLAKES you taught this!!

I wish i saw this when i was fresh out of college. I was in my last relationship for damn near 10 years. He was very chatming and presented well on the surface but he was a manipulative and emotionally unavailable. Saw his mom go through DV, found out daughters mom was a lesbian while she was oreggo and he grew up without his father... i grew up w/o my dad as well so immediate trauma bond. He made me laugh and had the gift of gab but unbeknownst to me i was being used for my beauty and my brains to validate and boost his bruised up ego. I wasnt that gurl to go thru phones and all that bcuz i believed whatever was done in the dark would come to the light... We had some issues during our relationship but nothing major. Bu the end of it, i felt unseen, unheard, unappreciated, unvalued by a man i was with for 10 years. I loved him. But at that point, i decided that i had nothing more to give him and i had to take what i had left to love me.

After therapy and my healing journey, i realized i ignored all his red flags and i fell for his potential and humor. I also realized that he most likely cheated on me our entire relationship due to his low self esteem and low self worth. I helped and prayed him through one of the worst times of his life, only to have a baby 2 years later by a Surburbian who he was using and cheating on me with.Chillleeeeee

I wanted to go back and really smack the ish out of myself but i was just doing what i was taught while desiring love from a man. Have to give myself grace everyday and i walked away 5 or 6 years ago. Healing is indeed a journey and i thank God for protecting me from having childten with him ir anything else that would have tied me to him. Truth be told, i should have never been apart of that equation in the 1st place.

Thanks Pastor Blake. Would love to have a conversation with you.

I’m not religious but I really enjoyed this video ❤❤❤

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Another thing to think about is the fact that some of these men use the excuse of being a player to get out of committing a crime.

💯Amen.......🙏😊🙌💯

Spot on Pastor this hit home big Facts!!!!😂😂😂❤Amen

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Some broken AND toxic men get their ignorance from their broken and toxic mothers. Sometimes it’s because their fathers left and she is projecting her hurt and insecurities. Or the dad was there, worked, but wasn’t into nurturing his children/family, he was there but not present. You touched on it saying some men are damaged by the women that hurt them in previous relationships. Some times, it’s the damaged mother/son relationship.

Word !!

Had an ex who be require praise for everything at nauseum. If i asked for approval, or compliment you thought id ask for the winning lottery numbers.

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I waz married to a broken/toxic/and abusive man, i thank God for divorcing him early and recognizing him being crazy, and very highly jealous of my beauty and my work ethics, he was also extremely jealous of my then 14yr old son, who was more mature and more of a man then he could ever be, i married him, and thats when the mask came off, but before i married him, i was love bombed and thought i was marrying a healthy man, but i got married to Satan,...he was very demonic, highly jealous of my family and friends

Thank you Bishop. You bless me with your teachings.

There has to be something between drama and not having a personality. 😊

Amen